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House of Usher (2008)
IMDB rating: 5.00
Plot: Victor Reynolds arrives at the notorious House of Usher, whereupon he is greeted by old acquaintances Roderick and Madeline Usher and their servant, Markus. As Victor uncovers more about the history of the house and the disappearances of those that entered it previously, he begins to realize that he is in mortal danger.
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Directors: DeCoteau David
Actors: Cardelle Michael,Mentier Frank,Carlisle Jack,Graham Taylor M.,Voitila Bart,Fugardi Daniel,Shaw Ian,Colbert Gino,Horror,
How can we fix our relationship when its falling apart?
So, if you didnt know, my boyfriend and I are 15 and 16 and we live together at my moms house. We have been together for 9 months and have lived together for 4 months.
I love my boyfriend with all my heart, but everything is just really messed up right now. He has a real problem with hitting on other girls and hes had one real "emotional affair" that I know of. He met a girl I used to go to school with over Facebook and they started talking allot, which at first I didnt mind, until I saw he had been blatantly flirting with her and her friend over Facebook and texting. I got really mad and asked him to stop. He said okay, but did it again the next day while I was out, which caused another huge fight where he again, agreed to not flirt with her anymore.
Well its been about a week or so later and hes still talking to her. I havnt seen anything that I would consider "flirting" but it still really bugs me that he talks to her. I dont trust him talking to girls at all because of his history and the fact that hell talk to her for hours on end and tell her personal stuff makes it worse. Before I caught him flirting with her, he used to always talk about wanting to hang out with her and yesterday he went to visit her at her work without me.
Ill admit, I have really bad jealousy issues with everyone, but I really dont think Im being irrational with my worries here. Ive asked him not to talk to her anymore, but he just wont. He puts up a fight every time I ask him not to do something with her (like talk to her for three hours straight while Im sitting with him, bored), which makes me think even more that he either likes her or is going to end up liking her. Im really scared of losing him, but its like in my attempts to make sure I dont it just pushes him away even further.
Yesterday he showed me that song "Moving Mountains" by Usher and he said thats how he feels. He keeps telling me theyre just friends and he doesnt like her that way, but as much as I try I just cant believe him. This has caused so many fights and a huge amount of tension on our relationship. We dont kiss and hug or even spend that much time together anymore and (not to get too graphic) but we havnt had sex in a long time. I just feel really hurt and worried and kind of betrayed, and Im sure hes getting really sick and tired of the way Im acting.
Sorry this is so long, but I really need help? I cant lose him.
What do we do?
Thanks, but breaking up is not an option. I am in love with him. I dont want anyone else.
And the only reason he lives with me is his mom kicked him out and he has no where else to go.
ur 15 and he lives with you???
i think that u guys should break up. because u’ve talked to him and he’s still hanging on to that other girl. if it were me, i would hate to have to always be fighting for my boyfriend everyday. he’s just gonna cause u excessive and unwanted pain.
honey, please break up with him.
all the best!
Alexa | Feb 08, 2010
Ok my answer to these types of questions is communicatioin is #1 in all relationships. If you have told him how you feel about the situation, irrational or not, he should respect your wishes. IF this continues to happen behind you back after you have asked him not to do so then you have problems. Right now it sounds like a good friendship that he has and you are a little jealous which is understandable because you are young, tell him how you feel and work out a plan of action TOGETHER not just a one sided argument by you.
Nimistad | Feb 08, 2010
you are 15 and 16 and i cant believe your parents let you live together. I say move on sweetheart. You are too young to worry about this. Enjoy being a kid. Enjoy high school and flirt with other boys and make good grades, go to college and find your real soul mate and fall in love, get a good job, get married and have children. Don’t worry about all this stuff now.
lisa_bsb | Feb 08, 2010
First off - re-evaluate your relationship with this boy. Why don’t you want to lose him ? Fear of being alone, or truly not wanting him out of your life. I know breaking up would be hard since he lives with you, but sometimes you gotta to what you gotta do.
By talking to her for hours on end, right in front of you is completely inconsiderate of him. Tell him that. Tell him how his behavior makes you feel. Tell him you don’t want to lose him, but you can’t be with him if he doesn’t respect you and your feelings.
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